THE ABC’S OF LUBE
A LUBE FOR EVERY OCCASION
WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW ABOUT LUBEIf you’re not on a strict ancient Greco-Roman diet, then your options for personal lube go beyond saliva and olive oil. Water-based, oil-based, silicone-based, lube to get yourself just wet enough, lube for next-level hand jobs and blowjobs, even lubes for those nights you’re in the mood to really push your boundaries.
If your partner is new to or unsure about using a vibrator, start by using it on him/her outside of clothing or underwear. Play round, enjoy the journey. Move it around the body — thighs, stomach, arms, face before working your way slowly - teasingly - towards their genitals.
If you’re also a little new to this too then ask for the same treatment in return.
Starting with simple moves like this helps both of you build confidence in your ability to please your partner — and it gets you comfortable with the idea of bringing this exciting toy into your love life.
In the episode, GG visits Pleasure Chest — one of our favorite retail partners — in West Hollywood for a tutorial on fellatio. It's an eye-opening (not to mention mouth-opening) experience for her. While she was there, she couldn't help checking out Pleasure Chest's wide array of sex toys, including some of our favorite Sportsheets pieces.
We tend to think of vibrators as being used exclusively by women — and always alone. Both these assumptions are incorrect: Men increasingly are discovering the erotic sensations of vibrator play. And couples are incorporating these sensations into the sex play they enjoy with each other.
Even if you’re purchasing your vibrator for couples play there’s a lot to be said for learning about your new toy - and yourself - by playing with it alone for a while. It’s not essential by any means - but you might like to be familiar with how to use it on yourself so you can better guide your partner when you get together.
So, whether you’re male or female, if you’re discovering the delights of a vibrator for the first time here’s Sportsheets’ guide to getting started with - and enjoying - your vibrator.
In recent years, the vibrator industry has grown exponentially (as have the quality of orgasms vibrator users are experiencing). Sportsheets alone has a big variety of vibrating toys designed to give you ultimate pleasure.
With so many to choose from, how do you know which one (or two or three) is right for you.
Questions to ask yourself about choosing a vibrator:
Like any other sex toy, this purchase should be thought out. Vibrators are all about personal pleasure, so take your time and know what you want. Batteries? Plug-in? Are you going to buy on-line or in a store? Always check the materials of your potential toy…Silicone is a healthy material. Avoid products made of phthalates.
For anybody already using a vibrator in their sex play the question almost makes no sense... why wouldn’t you use a vibrator?!
Orgasms are great and you can enjoy them from a number of sources - your hand, your partner’s hand, via sexual intercourse — the list is endless. And one of the world’s most popular sources of orgasm — after straightforward sex — is the vibrator.
So what kind of people use vibrators? The kind of people who want orgasms — powerful, intense orgasms! So that’s just about everyone then.
If you’re masturbating now and again using fingers then you can get an instant — and substantial — pleasure upgrade by doing it with a vibrator.
In this blog, Vanessa from Hawaii discussed "Vanilla Bondage" for beginners.
Why would anyone want to try bondage?
Maybe you’ve wound up here by accident or maybe you’re cautiously meandering the internet to learn more about the different worlds within human sexuality. When some people are considering bondage, they might be wondering what would compel a person to be into that.
Thanks to inaccurate portrayals in media, the thought of BDSM (the “B” stands for “bondage”) sometimes conjures up images of being forced to commit unpleasant things that you don’t want to do. But those images couldn’t be further from the truth.
It’s the perfect opportunity! Your partner is in the shower and the water is already preheated. All you have to do is skim down and join them. Pull back the curtain without saying a word, and get in.
How is this not a good idea? You are, after all, saving water. You good souls, you.
How ever beautiful it looks in the movies, our cute little asses pressed up against the steamed glass don’t look so nice when we slip and hit the floor. Who wants a huge plumber bill from pulling the shower head right off the wall — it happens all of the time!
Congrats to Mistress Kay of My Kinky World for winning best BDSM in our Valentine's Fantasy Contest. Her three-way poolside pegging fantasy definitely left us hot and bothered!
Clang! I pull the name badge off from around my neck and drop it unceremoniously onto the glass-topped table next to my chair. Enjoying the weekend at a kink conference with two of my play partners had been a fantastic idea. Both my submissives, we had enjoyed some spanking and orgasm torture scenes the night before, and we were looking forward to today's activities of relaxation. The room's humidity told me that something besides the leather dress I was wearing might have been more conducive to relaxation, though.
This afternoon, the three of us are enjoying one of the amazing features of this conference: a hotel swimming pool with no clothes required and no rules in place. Various people are strewn throughout the deep water including a couple that's having sex on one of the sides of the pool. A bit adverse to messing up our make-up and hair so early in the day, my female submissive and I sit, clothed, in the poolside chairs while we watch my male submissive swim leisurely around the pool without a strip of clothing on his body.
Congrats to Cheyenne, who packed an amazing amount of Sportsheets products in her sexy entry to our Valentine's Fantasy Contest. Not surprisingly, she won the "Best Use of sex toys award. Enjoy!
My fantasy starts out at home. I'm getting ready to take a shower and I think I heard something in the other room. I go to check it out but nothing is there.
I take my clothes off and jump in the shower. I reach for my Vibrating Mesh Sponge to pleasure myself. I put my foot on my Single Locking Suction Foot Rest, then I begin to feel the power of my sponge. Just as I'm about to shower all over the shower I hear someone again in the other room. Babe is that you? I call out but no one answers. Now I'm starting to get nervous! All my senses are high. I hurry and finish my shower so I can find out what's going on.
Congrats to Elena, winner of the most romantic entry in our Valentine's Fantasy Contest!
Elena was just getting home… thinking to herself – Oh, another Valentine’s Day! Henry probably forgot… being so busy with getting his car detailed and buffed. Hmpt! I wouldn’t mind by buffed myself!
She entered her home and it was dark… She thought: Yep, Henry forgot about our dinner tonight… oh well! Then she stopped – Wait… what was that noise? Did someone break into the house… no… that’s music. Burglers don’t usually put on romantic music!
Today's Valentine's Fantasy Contest winner comes from RainCloud, who's sexy story won the Creative Award.
I woke up bound to the bed. M must have put on the Sportsheet cuffs and ankle cuffs while I was out. We've done this a few times, and I loved it.
This time was different, though. I had blindfold on, one that covered my ears as well, and was heavy enough to block out some sound.
I was completely naked, and could feel our blue anal beads inside me. I squirmed around, growing anxious, and wet.
Congratulations to Jasmine, Grand Prize winner of our Valentine's Fantasy Contest. We loved her sexy tale of passion and lust fulfilled. Enjoy!
The day finally came! All that time of hesitant flirting and wondering if he wanted me as bad as I wanted him, the day finally came. I could not believe it when he took control. He gave me every inch of what I had been longing for and believe me, he was not lacking inches.
There was clearly something on his mind that day. He seemed to be nervous and anxious all at once. I had never seen him like that before. I sat their staring at him thinking how sexy he looked. Even in the fragile state that he seemed to be in. Sitting at the end of his bed, elbows to his knees, back muscles glistening. I swear his arm veins looked bigger that day. And those athletic shorts he was wearing gave him the perfect bulge.