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Debunking Myths about Sexuality and Disability

Debunking Myths about Sexuality and Disability

by Sportsheets Blogger February 20, 2018

To many people, there are few topics which seem more uncomfortable and personal than sexuality and disability. Conversations about bodies can make people uneasy, because our bodies are so often and intimately tied to our identities. And when the topic transitions to sex or disability—or both—lots of people simply avoid them out of politeness, discomfort, or a lack of vocabulary (or, let’s be real, all three). That silence may be politely well-intentioned, but it leaves most disabled people feeling that their sexuality is elided and ignored in the wider world. Myths and misunderstandings about disability and sex abound, and here we will try to tackle and demystify a few.

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Making Your Second Sex Toy Purchase: What to Buy After Your First Vibrator

Making Your Second Sex Toy Purchase: What to Buy After Your First Vibrator

by Sportsheets Blogger February 15, 2018

You never forget your first time, but most people don’t remember their second. And this isn’t just about sex (although, really, it’s mostly about sex). You probably don’t remember your second day at a job, second car, second date...

Unless something spectacular happens at one of them (like if the second date is the first time), your second everything is usually the first step toward forgetfulness. It’s where things start to blend in. That’s just human nature.

We’re happy to report, though, that sex toys are the exception to the rule.

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Marriage Bed Tips: 6 Best Toys to Spice Up Sex for Married Couples

Marriage Bed Tips: 6 Best Toys to Spice Up Sex for Married Couples

by Sportsheets Blogger February 13, 2018

Even without kids, it can be hard for married couples sometimes to break the routine and try something new in bed. Not everyone is going to check into a sex dungeon for the weekend, or turn their apartment into a Den of Erotic Mysteries. But the alternative to that isn’t another night of bickering about what to watch on Netflix.

Married couples want to break the routine and begin to experiment, without having to rearrange their lives. Routine breaking can be easily done, sparking passion, making every day a little better, and maybe leading to more adventures together in the bedroom.

You don’t need a dungeon. You just need these six best toys to spice up sex for married couples.  

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Best Sex Toys for Erectile Dysfunction:  Enjoying Sex & Intimacy with ED

Best Sex Toys for Erectile Dysfunction: Enjoying Sex & Intimacy with ED

by Sportsheets Blogger February 08, 2018

Even though it has become a more commonplace topic than in the past, talking about erectile dysfunction is undeniably difficult. Living with it? Even more so. Many guys, understandably, feel that some portion of their masculinity is tied to their sexual performance. And so experiencing difficulty with erections can turn into both a physical and mental struggle. But listen: You might feel that your masculinity is tied to your erection, but it isn’t. Erectile dysfunction does not lessen you as a man or mean that you have failed your partner.

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Intimate Intercourse: The Importance of Communication in Sexual Relationships

Intimate Intercourse: The Importance of Communication in Sexual Relationships

by Sportsheets Blogger February 06, 2018

I’ll let you in on a little secret of mine: I used to be terrible at communicating with my partner. Introverted by nature and a little shy, I didn’t know how to ask for what I wanted. I barely knew what it was I even wanted, and I hesitated to admit it for fear that it would make me seem inadequate somehow. I wanted to be perfect for him. I wanted to be perfect, period.

It didn’t take long for me to realize something wasn’t right, though it took me a bit longer to pinpoint exactly what that something was. The problem wasn’t really my lack of expertise—it was that I wasn’t allowing myself to trust in my partner or our relationship enough to open up to him about something that, though it felt private to me, was deeply affecting both of us and our time together. Relationships, of course, are built on trust—and the only way to build that trust is through open communication.

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Building Anticipation: 8 Ways to Turn Yourself On Before a Sexy Night In

Building Anticipation: 8 Ways to Turn Yourself On Before a Sexy Night In

by Sportsheets Blogger February 01, 2018

It’s Friday morning, but not just any Friday morning. Tonight is date night. You’ve had this day planned for a while; you’ve already gotten your sex toy “date in a box” kit. There are no phones, the kids are with mom, maybe you’re going to dinner, maybe not. The whole goal of this date night is to have time alone together.

And, needless to say, to spend that time twined in and around each other’s bodies as much as possible.

But it’s still morning. It’s 8:00 AM. You’re rushing to get to work. You have, like, at least 10 hours before you can taste each other again. How will you make it through the day?

These eight tips will help you use those hours at work for naughty intimacy, surrounded by people who have no idea what is roiling inside you. There’s nothing more delightful than being in a cloud of your own sexual energy while the world passes by. Get ready for tonight.

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6 Tips for Enjoyable (and Safe!) Sex After Hip Replacement Surgery

6 Tips for Enjoyable (and Safe!) Sex After Hip Replacement Surgery

by Sportsheets Blogger January 30, 2018

The road to recovery after hip replacement surgery can be long and challenging. It’s no surprise that patients become eager to get back to their old lives and routines and often struggle to adapt to their new—though temporary—physical limitations.

These limitations include those surrounding intimacy with partners. While recovery can take up to an entire year, that is a very long time to wait to resume relations. And as it turns out, love really can’t wait. And shouldn’t have to.

The most important thing to keep in mind, throughout the healing process, is to be patient with your partner and yourself. Intimacy is all about empathy, and if you or your partner are recovering from surgery, that need for empathy and understanding only increases. Remember, these limitations will pass. You can still enjoy intimacy… and pleasure. And until you are fully recovered, you can still have hot, passionate, steamy sex. Who knows? Maybe you’ll find a position or toy that brings you and your partner amazing new ways to orgasm.

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2018 Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: 12 Best Sex Toy Presents

2018 Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: 12 Best Sex Toy Presents

by Sportsheets Blogger January 25, 2018

Most people don’t like presents because they like getting stuff. They like getting presents because it shows that you care. It shows that you are thinking about them, that you are considering their happiness, and that you want to bring the most happiness and joy and pleasure to a cold day in mid-February as possible.

You know what works great for this? Sex toys. Sure, get chocolate for your partner. Get a nice bottle of red wine to enjoy over a long and lingering dinner. Go see the new 50 Shades movie. (Even if you don’t love it, you could get some good ideas.) Do the traditional stuff, or do the stuff you’ve made your tradition.

But at the end of the night, you’re going to end up in bed. And that’s where our Valentine’s Day gift guide with the 12 best sex toy presents comes in.

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Test the Waters of BDSM with 'Vanilla Bondage'

Test the Waters of BDSM with 'Vanilla Bondage'

by Sportsheets Blogger January 23, 2018

There are a lot of people who are fascinated, intrigued, and turned on by the thought of bondage, restraint play, domination, submission, role-playing, or any other element that makes up BDSM sexuality. But they may be scared at the thought of pain, imagining that’s all BDSM is, and think that you have to jump right into being tied to a door and whipped.

But we’d like to introduce you to a concept called “vanilla bondage.” Vanilla bondage is BDSM without the binding, flogs, or whips. It is BDSM for people who want to learn more, or who have learned more, and know precisely what they want.

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Maintaining Intimacy as a Quadriplegic: A Couple’s Guide to Paralyzed Sex

Maintaining Intimacy as a Quadriplegic: A Couple’s Guide to Paralyzed Sex

by Sportsheets Blogger January 18, 2018

Contemplating sex after paralysis can seem like a daunting task, especially when your paralysis reaches the level of quadriplegia. And yet sex is very often the first question on our lips after the paralysis.  Mitchell Tepper, a clinical sexologist and quadriplegic for more than thirty years, remembers that “when I woke up in the hospital, I was still in intensive care and as soon as they took my breathing apparatus out, the first thing I asked was if I could still have children[.]  I was 20 years old, kids weren't on my mind yet, but instinctively when you're in this position, [you think] ‘What’s my sexual future?’”

The path back to healthy sexuality may be complex, but quadriplegia doesn’t have to prevent you from having an active and full sex life. 

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9 Exciting Sex Positions For Couples Trying New Things in the Bedroom

9 Exciting Sex Positions For Couples Trying New Things in the Bedroom

by Sportsheets Blogger January 16, 2018

When it comes to breaking the barriers of boredom in the bedroom, different people try different things. You can get a sex toy kit to enhance date night. You can pick up a book like the Kama Sutra to find new and exciting positions. You can invite someone else into your bedroom, or, you know, a few other people.

Or you can try one of these nine exciting sex positions.

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Paraplegic Sex: Tips and Toys to Increase Intimacy and Pleasure

Paraplegic Sex: Tips and Toys to Increase Intimacy and Pleasure

by Sportsheets Blogger January 04, 2018

Almost anyone who has experienced any degree of paralysis can tell you that friends often share questions about your disability once they feel close enough to ask. And when the braver friends have exhausted their polite questions—Do you feel any pain?—they sometimes get down to the questions they’ve wanted to ask, but propriety prevented them: Can you still have sex? Do you enjoy it?

The short answer? Yes, and yes.

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Ways to Be Intimate: Bringing Vulnerability into the Bedroom

Ways to Be Intimate: Bringing Vulnerability into the Bedroom

by Sportsheets Blogger January 02, 2018

Letting yourself be vulnerable in the most intimate possible setting, when you open your body to another person, is one of the most moving and bonding things you can do. Vulnerability in the bedroom is a gateway to true, deep intimacy. It allows you to know the other person, to know yourself, and to join together in ways you never thought possible.

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Buying Adult Products Online: What to Look for When Choosing Your First Sex Toy

Buying Adult Products Online: What to Look for When Choosing Your First Sex Toy

by Sportsheets Blogger December 21, 2017

Everyone has a first time for buying an adult toy, whether you are 18 or 80. And, despite things changing, and the ease that online shopping brings to the process, it remains the same for everyone: you have to find what makes you happy.

But if you’ve never bought adult products before, you may not know the best ways of doing it, and may feel embarrassed about that, as well as nervous about buying them. Don’t be.

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Sexy Date Night Ideas: Sex Toy Kits Provide a 'Date in a Box' for Couples

Sexy Date Night Ideas: Sex Toy Kits Provide a 'Date in a Box' for Couples

by Sportsheets Blogger December 19, 2017

Sex toy kits provide a theme and direction for your next date night—but more than that, they provide limitless possibilities. They all contain a few kinds of toys, letting you explore each other in ways that you might not have imagined before… or, more likely, in ways that you have imagined, when you dreamed up a steamy pulp-romance-cover sort of date night.

Really, these sex toy kits are a date in a box, providing the perfect material for a sexy end to your night. 

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Sex and Intimacy After Amputation: Building Trust as a Couple in the Bedroom

Sex and Intimacy After Amputation: Building Trust as a Couple in the Bedroom

by Sportsheets Blogger December 14, 2017

Like any disability or lasting change to our body, amputation and limb loss can lead to honest doubts and uncertaintiesThose concerns range from the small to the significant, and extend to every corner of life. It’s natural to wonder about the effect on sex and intimate partnerships. While limb loss and amputation may require adaptations and modifications to your intimacy, it should not diminish the quality, vibrancy, and satisfaction of your sex life.

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Plus-Size Sex Tips: The Best Toys to Enhance Your Intimacy and Pleasure

Plus-Size Sex Tips: The Best Toys to Enhance Your Intimacy and Pleasure

by Sportsheets Blogger December 12, 2017

Sex is for everyone. The physical pleasure and intimacy that comes from our tightest bonds is one of the great gifts of being human, and we celebrate all body types. That includes plus size, a significant segment of our population, but one to whom sex advertising seems to avoid.

Well, we reject that. While there can be certain considerations to account for with plus-sized sex, they can be easily handled with patience, understanding, a sense of humor and adventure, and the right equipment.

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Best Sex Positions (and Toys) for Back Pain or Injury

Best Sex Positions (and Toys) for Back Pain or Injury

by Sportsheets Blogger December 07, 2017

Back injuries and pain shouldn’t preclude you and your partner from an expansive, fulfilling sex life. Open communication, careful positioning, and the right toy will make sex after a back injury more possible, and open the door to even greater experimentation down the road.   

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Do I Need Lube? Why Personal Lubricant Belongs on Every Nightstand

Do I Need Lube? Why Personal Lubricant Belongs on Every Nightstand

by Sportsheets Blogger December 05, 2017

There is a list of things about sex that people should never need to apologize about. You should never apologize for not living up to some airbrushed body standard. You should never apologize for the wonderfully weird things our bodies do. You should never apologize for size. And you should never, ever apologize for needing or wanting to use lube.

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Coming Down the Chimney: Sexy Stocking Stuffer Ideas For Him and Her

Coming Down the Chimney: Sexy Stocking Stuffer Ideas For Him and Her

by Sportsheets Blogger November 29, 2017

Whether you’re celebrating your first Christmas together or your 50th, sexy stocking stuffers are a warm and welcome surprise, and can bring you closer together while opening up new worlds of enjoyment. 

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Tips, Toys, & Advice: How to Have Fulfilling Sex in a Wheelchair

Tips, Toys, & Advice: How to Have Fulfilling Sex in a Wheelchair

by Sportsheets Blogger November 27, 2017

While able-bodied people often wonder if a wheelchair diminishes sex, those of us in a wheelchair know differently. Sex in your wheelchair can be everything and anything you might desire from sex: passionate, intimate, rough, silly, kinky, spontaneous… the list is as varied as your desires.

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Tied with a Bow: Bondage Gifts that Make for Great Holiday Sex

Tied with a Bow: Bondage Gifts that Make for Great Holiday Sex

by Sportsheets Blogger November 22, 2017

It’s Christmas Eve, the fireplace is crackling, and you’re cuddling with your significant other. A box trades hands. A flurry of unwrapping is followed by an indrawn breath, and a mutual, expectant silence. With that exchange, a relationship has entered another level, and is ready to go exploring. Because this is the Christmas you gave bondage gifts.

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10 Ways to Heat Up Your Bedroom This Winter

10 Ways to Heat Up Your Bedroom This Winter

by Bold Apps November 10, 2017

At Sporthsheets, we believe sex is one of the great wonders of life! With hundreds of different sexual positions to try, an inexhaustible amount of role-plays and places to have sex, and a seemingly endless amount of fun sex toys available, there is no reason why sex should ever become boring.

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8 Shower Sex Positions That Are Both Possible and Fantastic

8 Shower Sex Positions That Are Both Possible and Fantastic

by Bold Apps October 31, 2017

Takeaway: Shower sex is inherently sexy, but if there's one thing that'll make it great, it's the right sex position.Sex In The Shower by Sportsheets will help with your sex in the shower experience.

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