There are so many different varieties of Kegel balls out there, it can be overwhelming to choose. Some are sets of balls attached by string, some are made of metal or glass, and they come in a variety of weights and sizes.
Words and cuddles can do much more to convey affection and emotion. You will both benefit from this closeness. On the physical side, sex doesn’t have to mean full penetration either. The stimulation of touch alone can be highly pleasurable.