Help! Is This the Right Pegging Strap-on for Me?


Em.Ex. Lifestyle

Last week, we talked about the benefits of pegging, including how to go about pegging someone with a penis or a vagina and guiding you on using a strap-on. This week, we’re taking things one step further by answering your next big question: “How do I pick the right pegging strap-on for me?” 

This is a question you may have before you first pegging (yes, even if you’ve been doing your research by watching ethically produced pegging porn), as much as it might be a curiosity of someone who has tried it before but never quite felt comfortable with the harnesses they’ve worn. Don’t forget that comfortable penetration is essential for the person being pegged, too!

The good news is that there is an ideal pegging strap-on for everybody and every body. Here at Sportsheets, we make sure that everyone has an opportunity to explore their kinks and experience sexual pleasure to the absolute fullest.

Let’s begin…

Sportsheets Flare Silicone Dildo

Figure out what you’re looking for

Before you jump right into buying a strap-on for pegging, figure out what you want to accomplish with it. You know, aside from earth-shattering orgasms. Consider the orifice(s) you’ll be penetrating. Will it be exclusively for anal sex (A-spot or P-spot stimulation), or will G-spot action be necessary, too? Even think about the size of the strap-on you will need (for example, if you’re looking to enjoy plus-size sex) or where you’d like the harness to be positioned on the body.

A fun tip: Watching ethically produced pegging porn can be a great place to start! See something you might like? Make a note of it!

Sportsheets Thigh Strap On Package Image

Always consider comfort

If you’ve seen any pegging videos, you may feel like you have to jump into things full force. Please remember that sex is about pleasure, and you can’t achieve unrestrained sensuality when you’re in constant discomfort. Harnesses come in various shapes, sizes, and overall designs, meaning that there is something on the market for everyone to enjoy. Consider what your requirements for comfort would be before beginning your research for the perfect strap-on.

Want to make things even more relaxed and comfy? Make sure that you’re using the right lube. You may even want to consider using weed to enhance orgasm and fight anxiety.

Remember that dildos are interchangeable

When it comes to peg sex, comfortable penetration is also vital for your sex partner. Sure, pegging porn might feature super long and thick toys, but this doesn’t necessarily mean that everyone will love these designs. That said, reducing discomfort during sex can be accomplished by using varying dildo sizes, whether the goal is to penetrate someone anally or vaginally. When it comes time to buy the right dildo, think about how many shaft bumps you want, as well as its insertable length and girth.

Of course, ensure that full, enthusiastic consent is given by all parties involved before diving into the fun!

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Check our Sportsheets’ newest collection

Whether it’s your first pegging or your hundredth, our women-owned sex toy company is your one-stop shop for buying adult products online. What better way to explore this form of penetration than with our latest collection? These are all ideal for vulva owners or women pegging a sex partner’s anus or vagina. 

Montero Strap On

This faux leather strap-on is constructed of thick and strong material to help keep you focused on the only thing you need: sheer sensual pleasure. O rings in four different placements mean that you can attach your dildo anywhere and get right into it…whatever ‘it’ might be.

Dual Penetration Thigh Strap On

This is the perfect toy for folx looking to be filled vaginally and anally. It also tackles any myths about sexuality and disability, as this can be used by everybody and on any body. The strap can fasten to any limb and can include either one or two dildos!

Ultra Thigh Strap On 

This harness’ wide band is made of neoprene, making it a soft and comfortable option. Like our other thigh strap-ons, this is designed for all bodies; fulfilling sex in a wheelchair, sex with Cerebral Palsy, and even erotic sex positions for folks with arthritis are no longer off the table!

Sportsheets Face Strap On

Face Strap On 

This harness is made of soft, elastic neoprene and is designed on a narrow and flexible band, making it comfortable for all bodies. As you use your head to penetrate your partner, mobility and security are never out of the question!

Give it a test run!

Now that you’re fully prepared and have your brand-new strap-on on hand, get ready to have some fun! 

Don’t forget that, just like using any sex toy for the first time, it can take some getting used to. Learning how to maneuver your body and synching up sensations with your partner takes practice. However, as long as you feel relaxed and secure in your harness and your partner is experiencing comfortable penetration, you’re off to a great start. 

As you dive into discovering which harness set and pegging dildo are ideal for you and your sexual partner(s), remember that ergonomic wear and comfortable penetration is possible. Now, next time you ask your partner, “peg me!” or are the one suggesting getting it on with someone else, you can be confident that peg sex will be optimal. 

Just remember to get a good handle on what you and your sex partner are truly looking for and of your boundaries with one another. From there, you can consider things like finding the most comfortable and well-fitting products, properly sized dildos, and even looking through our new collection before deciding which product is the best for you to take on a test run. 

Now, all you have to do is set the mood in a sensual environment and get ready for some fun. 

If you’ve purchased a set in the past, how did you find the perfect pegging strap-on to use for your first pegging? If you’re looking into buying your first harness, what is most important to you as you begin to explore the world of peg sex? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below.


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