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LGBTQ+ Vocabulary Definitions

Download this content as a 'Copyright Free' PDF   Big Thank You to Sam Killermann for creating this document and making it available in the public domain. Visit his website for inspiration.   advocate – 1 noun : a person who actively works to end intolerance, educate others, and support social equity for a marginalized group. 2 verb to actively support/plea in favor of a particular cause, the action of working to end intolerance, educate others, etc. agender – adj. : a person with no (or very little) connection to the traditional system of gender, no personal alignment with the concepts of either man or woman, and/or someone who sees themselves as existing without gender. Sometimes called gender neutrois, gender-neutral, or genderless. ally /“al-lie”/ – noun : a (typically straight and/or cisgender) person who supports and...

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9 Exciting Sex Positions For Couples

When it comes to breaking the barriers of boredom in the bedroom, different people try different things. You can get a sex toy kit to enhance date night. You can pick up a book like the Kama Sutra to find new and exciting positions. You can invite someone else into your bedroom, or, you know, a few other people.Or you can try one of these nine exciting sex positions.

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Safe Bondage: The Products and Discussions that Keep Your Kink Connected

“I’ve always wanted to try BDSM, but isn’t it… dangerous?” I can’t count how many times I’ve been asked that question. Okay, I can (it’s probably like seven times). Regardless, it is something people wonder about. When you first hear about BDSM, the connotations are dark, shadowy, and even bruise-purple. It’s part of our cultural assumptions.

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Peg Me, Please: The Straight Man's Guide To Getting Pegged By His Woman

"If there is one thing I hate, as a man, it is experiencing new sexual pleasure and being brought to new orgasmic heights.”                 -Completely Made Up So, there’s a reason I had to make up that quote: it has literally never been said, even by accident.  So why, when it comes to the amazing orgasm that pegging can cause, is there so often reluctance? In this guide, we work to understand and overcome hesitation and inaccuracies surrounding the act of getting pegged.

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How to Increase Your Sex Drive

Men. High sex drive. Panting sexual animals. We know what they want. And we know when they want it – right now! Even doctors tend to see men as sexual automatons always hardwired to want sex – but that’s not the case at all. Many, many men (about 1 in 5) have such low sexual desire they’d rather do almost anything else instead of sex. Hypoactive Sexual Disorder 1 in 5 men don’t want to have sex? How can that be true? And why haven’t we heard about this before? Well, many women have. These are the women who often hear “not tonight, Dear.” Most people believe that this is a rare occurrence, but in fact, almost 30% of women...

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