It’s Friday morning, but not just any Friday morning. Tonight is date night. You’ve had this day planned for a while; you’ve already gotten your sex toy “date in a box” kit. There are no phones, the kids are with mom, maybe you’re going to dinner, maybe not. The whole goal of this date night is to have time alone together.
And, needless to say, to spend that time twined in and around each other’s bodies as much as possible.
But it’s still morning. It’s 8:00 AM. You’re rushing to get to work. You have, like, at least 10 hours before you can taste each other again. How will you make it through the day?
These eight tips will help you use those hours at work for naughty intimacy, surrounded by people who have no idea what is roiling inside you. There’s nothing more delightful than being in a cloud of your own sexual energy while the world passes by. Get ready for tonight.
Sex toy kits provide a theme and direction for your next date night—but more than that, they provide limitless possibilities. They all contain a few kinds of toys, letting you explore each other in ways that you might not have imagined before… or, more likely, in ways that you have imagined, when you dreamed up a steamy pulp-romance-cover sort of date night.
Really, these sex toy kits are a date in a box, providing the perfect material for a sexy end to your night.
Congrats to Mistress Kay of My Kinky World for winning best BDSM in our Valentine's Fantasy Contest. Her three-way poolside pegging fantasy definitely left us hot and bothered!
Clang! I pull the name badge off from around my neck and drop it unceremoniously onto the glass-topped table next to my chair. Enjoying the weekend at a kink conference with two of my play partners had been a fantastic idea. Both my submissives, we had enjoyed some spanking and orgasm torture scenes the night before, and we were looking forward to today's activities of relaxation. The room's humidity told me that something besides the leather dress I was wearing might have been more conducive to relaxation, though.
This afternoon, the three of us are enjoying one of the amazing features of this conference: a hotel swimming pool with no clothes required and no rules in place. Various people are strewn throughout the deep water including a couple that's having sex on one of the sides of the pool. A bit adverse to messing up our make-up and hair so early in the day, my female submissive and I sit, clothed, in the poolside chairs while we watch my male submissive swim leisurely around the pool without a strip of clothing on his body.
No one can deny that this year’s election cycle was a tough one. Winners, losers and everyone in between seem to all be experiencing a whirlwind of emotions.
No matter where you fall on the spectrum, it’s probably safe to assume you’ve been riding the election rollercoaster. Whether you are pumped for the new president-elect or planning your big move to Canada, there are a whole host of ways that the mood swings associated with this race can affect you physically.
One of the most common ways that change manifests in our bodies is through higher stress levels. Fortunately for you, one of the best ways to lower this excess stress is found in our favorite hobby: sex!
Research shows that engaging in sexual contact during times of high stress can reduce anxiety and alter your brain for the better. If you were looking for an excuse to spend more time between the sheets, here it is! It’s time to heal those post-election blues with a little TLC.
Sex Changes Your Brain
According to a 2010 medical study on depression, increased stress levels result in higher levels of cortisol produced by the body. Increased cortisol can lead to long-term anxiety that negatively affects the chemistry of the brain.
In the study, scientists looked at sexually active and stressed out male rats to discover the benefits of rewarding the brain with sexual release. These scientists monitored the levels of stress-related chemicals present in the brains of the rats and the ways that exposing them to sexually active female rats altered their long-term happiness.
Good news! The results clearly demonstrated that consistent exposure to sexual gratification calmed the nerves of their frenzied furry friends.
Not only did sex make for more relaxed rats, over time their brains began to heal from the traumas brought on by high-stress levels. According to the study, the brains of the rats began to regenerate cell growth in the hippocampus — the area of the brain considered to be the center of emotions and memories and the powerhouse of the nervous system. While stress may work to deteriorate high-functioning areas of the brain, sex can reverse these effects, leaving you with a stronger mind and a better ability to ward off anxiety. If the next four years have you feeling in a funk, get a head start now by rebuilding your brain in the bedroom.
Who hasn’t fantasized about a steamy romp in the shower with your lover? Hot water flowing over your clean bodies, slippery body parts rubbing up against each other, deep kissing and passionate caressing... anything goes.
Unfortunately, the reality of sex in the shower can sometimes be more comical than sexy. Feet slipping, hands searching for something to keep you steady, awkward positions… all of these things can get in the way of living out your steamy shower fantasies
Sportsheets to the rescue!
We’ve taken care of everything with our Sex in the Shower line, including handles, footrests, restraints, and toys — all made to help you make the most of your sexy shower time.
“For most of us, having a little leverage in the shower helps us to be more confident and comfortable — and it keeps the fun going longer,” says sex educator Tristan Taormino.
To ensure there’s no unwanted slipping, Taormino suggests adding a non-skid bottom to your tub or shower. This can be a non-slip bath mat or textured stickers purchased from your home store. Next up: Consider adding the Sportsheets Dual Locking Suction Handle and Single Locking Suction Foot Rest. Both are designed to steady you during your shower interlude as well as open up new angles to explore. They’re also super discreet so you don’t have to hide them away after the fun.
“Once you get in there, make sure you’ve got some silicone lube on hand,” Taormino says. “Unlike water-based lube, silicone lube stays put even when wet so you can make penetration more comfortable and last longer. But remember: just use a tiny bit at a time; a spill on the floor of your shower can be difficult to clean up and makes the tub even slicker.”
Taormino suggests experimenting with different positions to find which ones work best for you and your partner. During intercourse, she says going slower can help you keep your balance and lead to more intense sensations. “Going slower can tease you and your partner differently than a more vigorous session, but it has the benefit of giving you time to savor each other’s bodies in ways that faster sex may not,” she says.
Once you’ve got your moves down, try adding some toys like the Waterproof Mini Massager the Vibrating Mesh Massage or the Blue Silicone Anal Shower Beads. These will add some zing to your play, and all are water-safe.
If you like restraint play, the Sportsheets Suction Hand Cuffs are the perfect shower accessory. Imagine the sensations you’ll feel cuffed to the shower wall, water streaming down your body and your lover’s kisses and caresses awakening every sense. You may never want to get out!
The best part of shower sex? You come out cleaner then you were when you got in! Have fun and let us know how it goes.