Anastasia Steel and Christian Grey. An 18th century French courtesan and Marquis de Sade. Or maybe a naughty school teacher and her college freshman stud.
Whatever your fantasy, Halloween can be a delicious opportunity to dip into fantasy play and explore your wilder sexual side.
“Halloween is the perfect launching pad for experimenting with fantasy,” says certified sex therapist Sex Esteem®. “If it’s the first time experimenting with fantasy play, I would encourage them to do it playfully and mindfully so that they agree to create roles that are the least anxiety provoking at first.”, creator of the blog and YouTube show
Cooper says some couples may be ready to dive deep into fantasy play as a dominatrix and her subject, but some might want to play it safer with something along the lines of a lion tamer with a whip and a lion with a collar. The key is to let your imagination go wild and use the experience as an opportunity to grow together as a couple. The planning can be half the fun.
“Fantasy play allows each partner to see and respond to an aspect of the other that is not always acceptable to express in their every day life - their jobs, their family roles or how they interact with friends,” Cooper says. “It also can heighten erotic excitement.”
Once they’ve figured out their roles and costumes, Cooper invited couples to go “all in” with the fantasy.
“Play your roles with a serious intent so the fun is fulfilled,” she says. “Really invest emotionally to the roles and fantasy so that you fully feel what it’s like in that role and so your partner can truly relate to you in another, new light.”
And after you’ve lived out your hot Halloween fantasy? Talk about it with your partner. How did each of you feel in your roles? What turned you on the most? What would you do differently next time. And, of course, when can you do it again!Need help with your fantasy? Check out these sexy accessories from Sportsheets:
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Congrats to Mistress Kay of My Kinky World for winning best BDSM in our Valentine's Fantasy Contest. Her three-way poolside pegging fantasy definitely left us hot and bothered!
Clang! I pull the name badge off from around my neck and drop it unceremoniously onto the glass-topped table next to my chair. Enjoying the weekend at a kink conference with two of my play partners had been a fantastic idea. Both my submissives, we had enjoyed some spanking and orgasm torture scenes the night before, and we were looking forward to today's activities of relaxation. The room's humidity told me that something besides the leather dress I was wearing might have been more conducive to relaxation, though.
This afternoon, the three of us are enjoying one of the amazing features of this conference: a hotel swimming pool with no clothes required and no rules in place. Various people are strewn throughout the deep water including a couple that's having sex on one of the sides of the pool. A bit adverse to messing up our make-up and hair so early in the day, my female submissive and I sit, clothed, in the poolside chairs while we watch my male submissive swim leisurely around the pool without a strip of clothing on his body.
Congrats to Cheyenne, who packed an amazing amount of Sportsheets products in her sexy entry to our Valentine's Fantasy Contest. Not surprisingly, she won the "Best Use of sex toys award. Enjoy!
My fantasy starts out at home. I'm getting ready to take a shower and I think I heard something in the other room. I go to check it out but nothing is there.
I take my clothes off and jump in the shower. I reach for my Vibrating Mesh Sponge to pleasure myself. I put my foot on my Single Locking Suction Foot Rest, then I begin to feel the power of my sponge. Just as I'm about to shower all over the shower I hear someone again in the other room. Babe is that you? I call out but no one answers. Now I'm starting to get nervous! All my senses are high. I hurry and finish my shower so I can find out what's going on.
Congrats to Elena, winner of the most romantic entry in our Valentine's Fantasy Contest!
Elena was just getting home… thinking to herself – Oh, another Valentine’s Day! Henry probably forgot… being so busy with getting his car detailed and buffed. Hmpt! I wouldn’t mind by buffed myself!
She entered her home and it was dark… She thought: Yep, Henry forgot about our dinner tonight… oh well! Then she stopped – Wait… what was that noise? Did someone break into the house… no… that’s music. Burglers don’t usually put on romantic music!