Sex Tip: Strap-on Sex — A New Frontier

by Sportsheets Inc December 01, 2013

Sex Tip: Strap-on Sex — A New Frontier

Pegging—strap-on anal sex where women are the givers and men are the receivers—can open up a whole new world of erotic exploration for couples. For those who already enjoy anal sex, pegging can take that pleasure to the next level. The anus and rectum are full of sensitive tissue that’s rich in nerve endings. The prostate (sometimes referred to as the P-spot or the male G-spot) is one of a man’s great pleasure centers, and you can directly stimulate it through anal penetration. The prostate gland surrounds part of a man’s urethra; it’s behind the pubic bone, below the bladder and above the base of the penis. A mass of muscle, glands, and connective tissue, the prostate is about the size and shape of a walnut; it produces prostatic fluid that combines with sperm and fluid from the seminal vesicles to create male ejaculate. As a man gets aroused, the prostate swells, making it easier to find and more receptive to sensation. Some men enjoy prostate stimulation alone and others like it combined with genital stimulation. Some say that anal play intensifies their orgasms, making them feel longer and more powerful. Others say their orgasms become less genitally-focused as they experience a broader, full-body orgasm. Some men can have an orgasm through prostate stimulation alone. Others are able to orgasm without ejaculating.

Strap-on sex gives women the opportunity to learn a new way to give pleasure to their partners. It’s a chance to incorporate a sex toy into your bedroom routine in a new way. Some couples like to use strap-ons because it combines all the sensations of penetration with close skin-to-skin body contact. When a woman wears a strap-on dildo and harness, she has her hands free to tease, stroke, grab, spank—there are endless possibilities. Many women experience plenty of pleasure of their own from their new role. Plus, add a double dildo or a vibrator, and she can get great stimulation as she gives it! A strap-on can also be an opportunity for couples to explore fantasy role play, whether it’s playing with gender roles or power dynamics.

 

By Tristan Taormino
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