Picture this: you’ve had a long day at work, it’s hot outside, and you’re aggravated after a long commute home. All you can think about is getting out of your work clothes and slipping into something comfortable. And once you walk through the door, your lover is there smiling at you, urging you to join them in the shower so you can relax…
Sounds sexy, right? The chance to rub your slippery body against your partner’s body, soap each other up and make sure you get everything perfectly clean, then get a little dirty together? Behold: the joy of sex in the shower!
For some of us, the shower is our private time; it’s where we can relax, take care of ourselves, and (if we have children or roommates) it may be one of the precious few places we can have some privacy. But it can also be a space you share for some sexy time.
There are a few things to make sure that you have on hand in order to make your sexy shower time safe: the first is a non-skid bottom to your tub or shower stall. Whether it’s a textured floor, or a non-slip bath mat, or even some inexpensive textured stickers from the home store, a surface that you won’t slip on is key to your comfort.
For most of us, having a little leverage in the shower helps us to be more confident and comfortable (and keep the fun going longer) – the Dual Locking handle (link: http://sportsheets.com/product/dual-locking-suction-handle/) and the Single Locking foot rest (link: http://sportsheets.com/product/single-locking-suction-foot-rest/) give you a safe way to change the angle and provide even more stability. What’s also great is that accessories like these can stay in place even when we’re not using them, and since their so discreet, if the kids or parents see them, they’ll never know what you use them for!).
Once you get in there, make sure you’ve got some silicone lube on hand; unlike water-based lube, silicone lube stays put even when wet so you can make penetration more comfortable and last longer. But remember: just use a tiny bit at a time; a spill on the floor of your shower can be difficult to clean up, and makes the tub even slicker.
Because keeping your balance may be a little harder in the shower, experiment with different positions and find which ones make you both feel the most stable. During intercourse, you may want to focus on shorter, rocking thrusts rather than longer, faster ones. Going slower can tease you and your partner differently than a more vigorous session, but it has the benefit of giving you time to savor each other’s bodies in ways that faster sex may not. You may even find a new position or two that changes and helps you hit spots that you’d never found as easily before!
There’s no reason that you can’t bring your toys into the shower, too, but skip the rubber ducky and go for something waterproof like a g-spot vibe (link: http://sportsheets.com/product/waterproof-g-spot-vibe-blue/) or vibrating cock ring (link:http://sportsheets.com/product/waterproof-vibrating-cock-ring/).
These will let you add some zing to your play, and are safe to use in the shower. Of course, your non-vibrating toys like dildos and anal beads are also perfect shower buddies!
If you like restraint play, there is no reason you can’t bring that into the tub with you, too! Neoprene cuffs are all water-safe, and of course, you can even get handcuffs with an attached suction cup (link:http://sportsheets.com/product/suction-hand-cuffs/) for even more versatility. And while you’re at it, grab that vibrating sponge (link: http://sportsheets.com/product/vibrating-foam-sea-sponge/) and tease your bound lover with a sensational all-over body scrub!
One of the best parts about shower sex? You come out cleaner than when you went in, and there’s no need to change the sheets after a wet, sexy romp.
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Congrats to Mistress Kay of My Kinky World for winning best BDSM in our Valentine's Fantasy Contest. Her three-way poolside pegging fantasy definitely left us hot and bothered!
Clang! I pull the name badge off from around my neck and drop it unceremoniously onto the glass-topped table next to my chair. Enjoying the weekend at a kink conference with two of my play partners had been a fantastic idea. Both my submissives, we had enjoyed some spanking and orgasm torture scenes the night before, and we were looking forward to today's activities of relaxation. The room's humidity told me that something besides the leather dress I was wearing might have been more conducive to relaxation, though.
This afternoon, the three of us are enjoying one of the amazing features of this conference: a hotel swimming pool with no clothes required and no rules in place. Various people are strewn throughout the deep water including a couple that's having sex on one of the sides of the pool. A bit adverse to messing up our make-up and hair so early in the day, my female submissive and I sit, clothed, in the poolside chairs while we watch my male submissive swim leisurely around the pool without a strip of clothing on his body.
Congrats to Cheyenne, who packed an amazing amount of Sportsheets products in her sexy entry to our Valentine's Fantasy Contest. Not surprisingly, she won the "Best Use of sex toys award. Enjoy!
My fantasy starts out at home. I'm getting ready to take a shower and I think I heard something in the other room. I go to check it out but nothing is there.
I take my clothes off and jump in the shower. I reach for my Vibrating Mesh Sponge to pleasure myself. I put my foot on my Single Locking Suction Foot Rest, then I begin to feel the power of my sponge. Just as I'm about to shower all over the shower I hear someone again in the other room. Babe is that you? I call out but no one answers. Now I'm starting to get nervous! All my senses are high. I hurry and finish my shower so I can find out what's going on.
Congrats to Elena, winner of the most romantic entry in our Valentine's Fantasy Contest!
Elena was just getting home… thinking to herself – Oh, another Valentine’s Day! Henry probably forgot… being so busy with getting his car detailed and buffed. Hmpt! I wouldn’t mind by buffed myself!
She entered her home and it was dark… She thought: Yep, Henry forgot about our dinner tonight… oh well! Then she stopped – Wait… what was that noise? Did someone break into the house… no… that’s music. Burglers don’t usually put on romantic music!